Let’s face it: life loves throwing curveballs. It’s almost like there’s a little mischief-maker out there, plotting, “Hmm, how can I shake things up today?” But, here’s the beauty of it—each obstacle is a hidden opportunity to grow stronger, bolder, and, yes, a lot more confident.
Step One: Embrace the Obstacle (Briefly)
So, you’re strolling along, and bam! Here comes a new obstacle. Maybe it’s a challenge at work, a personal setback, or something unexpected that throws your plans out the window. Instead of thinking, “Why me?” switch it up! Imagine saying: “Hello, obstacle, thank you for the lesson!” Just think of it as that friend who gives the tough advice no one else dares to offer.
Yes, we’re actually thanking the obstacle here. Why? Because every time you overcome one, you’re chiseling away at self-doubt and adding bricks to the fortress of your confidence.
Step Two: Acknowledge the Growth (With a Little Sass)
Obstacles aren’t just there to annoy us (although they sometimes do a great job of that). They’re here to push us, stretch our limits, and help us discover parts of ourselves we didn’t even know were there. Every time you tackle a challenge, you’re growing—not just stronger but more resilient and self-assured. It’s like a workout for your confidence.
Imagine saying to your obstacle, “Thank you for making me stronger, more confident, and more resilient! I understood the lesson. Now, get out of my face because nothing will stop me from reaching my goals!” It’s empowering, isn’t it? And there’s a bit of satisfaction in bidding farewell to each hurdle with a “been there, done that” attitude.
Step Three: Celebrate the Small Wins
Confidence isn’t a sudden burst of unshakable belief in yourself. It’s the collection of all those small victories. Each time you face a challenge, your confidence muscles flex a little harder. Think of it like leveling up in a video game—you’re gathering skills, boosting resilience, and gaining tools that make you more prepared for the next round.
Take a moment to celebrate each win, no matter how small. Whether you’ve handled a tough client call, navigated a tricky conversation, or managed to get through a day that started out rough, every win counts. Laugh at your obstacles when you can, and pat yourself on the back for getting through.
Step Four: Trust the Journey
Building confidence isn’t a straight line; it’s a squiggly, twisty, often ridiculous road. There will be ups and downs, but as long as you keep moving forward, you’re on the right path. Trust that every obstacle is another chance to grow. The bigger the mountain, the more satisfying it is to climb.
So, the next time life throws a challenge in your way, welcome it. Learn from it. Laugh at it. And then, confidently tell it to step aside because you’re just getting started. This journey is yours, and every obstacle is just another step in building the powerhouse that is you!
Elga Lejarza
Founder/CEO
Lejarza HR Consulting
